LoveNPeace

One of the greatest things you can do for your relationships is to become self aware and self responsible.This means that you don't depend on others for your happiness. It also means that you check in with yourself before you agree to do anything, and if you do agree to something you embrace it gracefully because you understand it was your choice.
你可以為自己的人際關係做的最偉大的事情之一就是成為有自我意識和自我負責的人。這意味著你不依靠別人來獲得你的幸福。還意味著在你同意做任何事情之前你會檢查一下自己，如果你確實同意了某件事，那麼你就會優雅地擁抱它，因為你明白這是你的選擇。

If you take the time to do those two simple things, you will move beyond resentment. Since resentment creates anger, resistance, and separation between you and others, making choices that are in line with what you really wish to do helps you show up for others with an open heart from a place of love, safety, and connection, which can only support and heal your relationships. Further, being responsible for your own happiness and choices frees others from the pressure of trying to figure out how you really feel. Your self awareness and self responsibility opens the door for true communication, and for actions and responses to be based upon that truth.
如果你花時間去做這兩件簡單的事情，你會超越不滿。由於不滿會在你和他人之間創造憤怒、抵抗與分離，做出與你真正希望做的事情相符的選擇，這有助於你在愛，安全和連接的境地中向他人展現出一顆敞開的心，這只會支持和療癒你的人際關係。此外，為自己的幸福和選擇負責會他人擺脫了試圖弄清楚你真實感受的壓力。你的自我意識和自我負責為真正的交流以及基於那真理的行動與響應打開了大門。

The days of martyred service are over, Dear Ones. Making sure your efforts honour and empower everyone involved will pave the way for the new template of joyful service, which will serve everyone much better than ever before on your planet. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
一味犧牲奉獻的服務結束了，親愛的。確保你的努力是在榮耀和授權每個涉及的人，這將會為喜悅服務的新模版鋪平道路，這會為你的星球上的每一個人提供比以前更好的服務。

~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2018/03/02/daily-message-friday-march-2-2018
翻譯：Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/659288386

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