LoveNPeace

We were recently asked by someone how they could be more loving toward their husband. They were not happy with how they were treating their partner, and wished to shift it.This is a common experience within relationships and we wished to discuss this today.
最近有人詢問我們如何去更愛自己的丈夫。他們對自己對待伴侶的方式並不滿意，希望改變。這是人際關係中一個常見的體驗，我們今天來討論一下這個問題。

You cannot force yourself to be more loving if you do not feel loving. You cannot find a space of flow from the energy of resistance. You must add in another element that you are not resistant to. In the case of being more loving, we suggest you take your focus off love and put it on appreciation.
如果你沒有感覺到愛，你就無法強迫自己去變得更加有愛。你無法從抵抗的能量中找到一個流動的空間。你必須添加另一個你並不抵抗的元素。關於變得更加有愛，我們建議你不要專注於愛，而是去專注於欣賞之上。

Simply focus on appreciating your partner. Look for the things you are grateful for that they do or say. Consciously choose to observe them, with an eye toward their wonderful traits. What are they good at? Think about all the ways their presence adds to your life.
只需專注於欣賞你的伴侶。在他們所做或所說的一切之中尋找你會感恩的。有意識地去觀察他們，著眼於他們美好的特質。他們擅長什麼？思考他們在你生活中所有的存在方式。

If you do that, something magical will happen. Your love will suddenly begin to flow because you will have moved yourself into a space of non-resistance to them. You simply cannot appreciate something and resist it at the same time. Your appreciation will shift you into a heart space of love and acceptance, and from there you will connect with them in the loving way your soul has been wanting to do all along.~Archangel Gabriel
如果你這麼做，神奇的事情會發生。你的愛會突然開始流動，因為你把自己帶入一個不抵抗他們的空間。你無法在欣賞某樣東西的同時又抵抗它。你的欣賞會將你轉變到一個愛與接納的心之空間，從那裡，你會在你靈魂一直希望的有愛方式中與他們連接。

~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2019/04/22/daily-message-monday-april-22-2019
翻譯：Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/715539066

Ask Gabriel（請問加百利）：
https://www.facebook.com/notes/trinity-esoterics/ask-gabriel/1989099964442945/?hc_location=ufi

友善提醒：閱讀文章時請善用自己的直覺與內在智慧，感知哪些是對自己有正面幫助的訊息，提取它們，並放下沒有共鳴的部分，無須執著或恐懼；保持心態的正面與開放，樂觀迎接新的可能，一個活在永久和平、自由、繁榮與實現真善美之新世界的可能。感謝所有光愛存有們的付出，感謝一切美好的發生~