LoveNPeace

As you continue along your healing journey, many old patterns and habits will be up for review and for change. What often accompanies this is a need for the readjustment of boundaries.
隨著你繼續你的療癒之旅，許多舊的模式和習性將會出現以被審視和改變。經常隨之而來的是需要重新調整邊界。

Healthy boundaries have been a major theme for enlightening human beings. Simply put, healthy boundaries are about creating a space that is loving and empowering for all. What that means may shift or move according to each individual situation.
健康的邊界對覺醒的人來說一直是一個重大的主題。簡而言之，健康的邊界會為所有人創造一個有愛和授權的空間。這意味著每個人可以根據自己的情況改變或移動。

A simple rule of thumb you may wish to use as you explore the creation of healthy boundaries is to simply make sure that you are never more invested in another person's wellness than they are in their own, and to make sure you are not more invested in another person's wellness more than you are in your own.  Making sure if you do step up to give assistance you are doing it from your heart and not from obligation or an unhealthy desire to control is important. To give under such circumstances often leads to resentment.
隨著你探索健康的邊界，你會希望使用的一個簡單的經驗法則，就是確保永遠不要比他人對他們自己的福祉為他花費更多的精力，確保永遠不要對他人的福祉比對你自己的福祉所花費的精力要多。確保，如果你確定要提供協助，那麼請根據你的心去做，而不是義務或不健康的控制慾，這很重要。因為在那樣的情況下付出常常會導致怨恨。

You are wise, Dear Ones, and by simply stopping and evaluating from your latest level of mastery, you will be able to find the place that supports everyone in showing up in their highest expression of self.  Sometimes that might mean stepping in with others to help stabilize them during crisis, other times it might be stepping back and offering encouragement so they can find their own divine capability. Allow your boundaries to be part of the flow of support, love, and wellness for all, and you cannot make a mistake. ~Archangel Gabriel
你是睿智的，親愛的一們，通過簡單地停下來，根據你最新的精通水平去評估，你將能夠找到支持每個人最高的自我表達的境地。有時候這可能意味著介入去幫助一個處於危機中的人保持穩定，有時可能意味著後退一步，提供鼓勵，以使他們能夠找到自己神聖的能力。讓你的邊界成為支持、愛、所有人福祉流動的一部分，你不可能犯錯的。

~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2018/11/19/daily-message-monday-november-19-2018
翻譯：Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/697274742

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