Wouldn't it be great if the universe put up a huge sign, maybe in yellow neon lights, right in front of us when we are making the wrong decisions in life? Something like,"You're going to regret that!", or something to that effect?
當我們在生活中做出錯誤的決定時,如果宇宙能發出一個巨大的信號,也許用黃色的霓虹燈,放到我們的面前,該有多好?就像提醒說:"你會後悔的!"或者類似的東西?


Since we are obviously not going to get these types of signs, we have to look very carefully to find the small signs in life that we are doing something wrong. If you continue to do these things, you are poisoning yourself.
既然很顯然我們不會得到這類的標誌,所以我們必須非常仔細地尋找生活中微小的跡象,以便提醒我們自己哪裡做錯了。如果你繼續做這些事情,你就會毒害自己。


Hence, why it's called The Poison Path.
因此,它被稱為有毒的道路


If you pay close attention to the way you feel, you will be able to figure out if you are about to make a bad decision even before you make it. Ready to learn how? Here are eight different ways to realize you are headed towards the poison path.
如果你密切關注你的感受,那麼在你做出決定之前,你可以弄清楚你是否做出了糟糕的決定。準備好學習了嗎?這裡有八種不同的方式來讓你意識到你是否在朝向有毒的道路。


1.WHAT IS YOUR FIRST THOUGHT?
1.你的第一個想法是什麼?


subconscious is smart- it is OK to rely on it. When you start thinking about the future, what emotion do you feel right off the bat? Is it a negative one? This is the universe telling you to consider what you are about to do before you actually do it.
你的潛意識是聰慧的,依靠它是可以的。當你開始思考未來時,你會立刻感覺到什麼樣的情感?是消極的嗎?這是宇宙在告訴你在實際做之前考慮你要做什麼。


2.EXHAUSTION
2.疲憊


Everyone experiences bouts of exhaustion now and again. But is it happening to you constantly?
每個人都會時不時地體驗疲憊。但它是經常發生的嗎?


Are you feeling a deep, intense tiredness that makes it almost impossible to get out of bed more mornings than not? There is something wrong and you should look into it if this occurs. Exhaustion can be the universe telling you something!
你是否感覺到深深的疲憊,幾乎讓你早上都起不了床?總覺的有著什麼是不對勁的,你應該去查看它,如果這些發生。疲憊可能是宇宙在告訴你一些事情!


3.BEING SICK AND TIRED
3.生病和勞累


This part goes along with being exhausted all of the time. Chronic stress and sadness can take a physical toll on the body as stress can cause the immune system to work overtime, making us ill and unable to fight off infections. This means that yes, you CAN be"sick and tired"of a career or job you hate!
這個部分總是緊隨疲憊。長期的壓力和悲傷會對身體造成傷害,因為壓力會導致免疫系統的過載,讓我們生病並且無法抵禦感染。這意味著,是的,你會對你厭惡的職業或工作感到"生病和勞累"!


4.ALWAYS UNHAPPY
4.總是不開心


You don't owe it to anyone to be happy all of the time. But if you find yourself constantly miserable and sad, it may be time to look at your life and where it is going. You may want to look for professional help or make different choices.
你不欠任何人,時時刻刻都能夠開心。但如果你發現自己經常痛苦和悲傷,那麼也許是時候去看向你的生活以及它在朝向哪裡。你可能想要尋找專業的幫助或做出不同的選擇。


5.CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK
5.在乎別人的想法


We all care about what others think, to some extent- that's perfectly normal. But when you start making major decisions based on the opinions of others, such as the type of house you purchase or the partner you choose, you'll more than likely end up unhappy with your choice in the long run.
我們都在乎別人的想法,在某種程度上來說,這是很正常的。但當你開始基於他人的觀點做出重大的決定時,比如買房子或結婚對象,長遠來說,你很可能最終會對自己的選擇感到不滿。


6.SAFETY FIRST
6.安全第一


Are you always making the"right"and"safe"choice when deciding what to do? It's really ok to make a decision based on your heart and not the most logical plan of action.
當你決定要做什麼的時候,你總是做出"正確"和"安全"的選擇嗎?基於你的心而不是最符合邏輯的行動計劃來做決定真的是可以的。


Not only that, safe decisions don't always work out anyway, so don't be afraid to do something out of the box or unusual. You'll find out just how satisfying it can be!
不僅如此,安全的決定並不總是奏效,所以不要害怕在箱子之外做事或用不同尋常地方式做事。你會發現這會是多麼地令人滿意!


7.BEING DEFENSIVE
7.防守姿態


Are you constantly defending your decisions to the people around you? This could be a sign you are miserable with your choices because they aren't the right ones.
你是否經常向周圍的人捍衛你的決定?這可能是一個跡象,它表明你的選擇讓你苦不堪言,因為它們不是正確的選擇。


However, sometimes you may just be around judgmental people, so take your time and examine whether or not the choices you are defending are indeed the right ones.
然而,有時候你可能只是處於喜歡評判他人的人周圍,所以花點時間檢查你在捍衛的決定是不是正確的。


8.LYING
8.說謊


Do you have to lie to yourself and others about the important things in life? If the answer is yes, this is a major red flag. This means that you are either unhappy with the things in your life or you don't trust your circle of friends.
關於生活中重要的事情你是否必須對自己和他人撒謊?如果答案是肯定的,這是一個重大的危險信號。這意味著你要麼對生活中的事物不滿意,要麼不信任你的朋友圈。

 

 

 


原文:https://lovehaswon.org/8-signs-that-you-are-on-the-poison-path
翻譯:Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/671088273

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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