LoveNPeace

As you turn your focus on healing, many of you become stuck waiting for closure.We understand you wish to wrap up a phase or experience, but holding on for closure to come from someone can be a faulty practice. We will explain why.
當你把注意力集中在療癒上時，許多人都困於等待結束。我們理解，你希望趕快結束一個階段或體驗，但緊抓著"結束來自他人之手"會是一個錯誤的做法。我們來解釋為什麼。

Your healing is a self guided process. Waiting for closure to come from another is placing your healing in the hands of someone else. It is giving your power away.
你的療癒是一個自我引導的過程。等待來自他人之手的結束就是將你的療癒放到別人的手中。這是在交付你的力量。

Worse, it is placing your healing in the hands of a person who has already hurt you and proven they haven"t been able to see you in your truth and worth. So, now your healing becomes dependant upon another person"s healing and growth and there is no guarantee when or if that person will achieve what is necessary to offer you the acknowledgment you seek.
更糟糕的是，這是將你的療癒放在已經傷害了你以及已經證明無法看到你的真理和價值之人的手中。所以，現在，你的療癒變得完全取決於他人的療癒和成長，你無法保證那個人何時或者是否能夠實現所需的來提供你所尋求的認識。

If someone has hurt you to the point where you need closure it is highly unlikely they have the wisdom or vantage point to give you what you need for healing. It is not that they have some secret wellspring of love and awareness that they have been withholding from you, it is more likely that they simply do not have it to give at this time in their incarnation. Looking for healing from them would be much like looking to a hot stove for comfort after you have burned yourself.
如果有人傷害你到你需要結束/關閉的程度，那麼就不太可能是因為他們擁有智慧或有利位置來給予你療癒所需的東西。這並不是他們擁有一些秘密的愛與意識的源泉沒有展露，這很有可能是他們在化身的這個時刻並沒有擁有這些東西。向他們尋求療癒就像是在你燒傷後找一個火爐來安撫自己一樣。

So what do you do?Please understand you need nothing outside of yourself to get the closure you are seeking. The most beautiful wrapping up of an old issue or wound comes through your own self love and the recognition that you deserve much better. It is assuming the role of your own loving parent, guide, and best friend.
所以你該怎麼做？請明白你不需要外在的任何東西去得到你所尋求的結束。最好地結束一個舊的問題或創傷來自"自愛"和認識到"你值得擁有更好的"。這是承擔起你自己"有愛的父母、指導、好朋友"的角色。

The healing and gift you are looking for in all this is the realization that you are no longer in line with the energies that allowed you to be hurt in the first place and that those energies have nothing more to offer you. That is using your experience as a springboard for something much better that honours you and celebrates who you are.
你在這一切之中尋找的療癒和禮物就是-意識到你不再與會讓你受到傷害的能量對齊，那些能量已沒有什麼可以提供給你的了。這是將你的體驗作為跳板到達會榮耀你、慶祝你之所是的更好的地方。

Closure is the willing withdrawal of your energetic attachment to what hurt you in the first place, and then lovingly guiding yourself onto an entirely new line of potential where your full healing exists and occurs through your own empowerment. And the beautiful thing about all of this is you can choose that right now to move forward with the love, respect, and support you deserved all along. ~Archangel Gabriel
結束就是願意將你的能量依附從會傷害你的事物中撤出，然後有愛地指引自己進入全新的潛在行列—你完全的療癒存在的地方，並通過你自己的授權發生。這一切的美妙之處在於，你現在就可以選擇伴隨著你一直以來都值得擁有的愛、尊重、支持前進。

~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2019/06/02/daily-message-sunday-june-2-2019
翻譯：Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/721168263

Ask Gabriel（請問加百利）：
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