LoveNPeace

Someone recently asked,"What do you do if you have hurt another, apologized, but they still can't get over it?"We would like to address that today.
最近有人問道："如果你傷害了別人，道歉後他們依舊不放過你，該怎麼辦？"今天我們就來說說這個問題。

As human beings, you are on the planet to have many experiences. Within this vast array of experiences, you will end up trying or doing things that you come to regret. This is normal and part of your growth process. It allows you to reevaluate, expand, and redirect yourself in a way that better matches your truth, your energetics, and how you wish to show up in the world.
作為人類，你是來地球擁有許多體驗的。在這個廣闊的體驗中，你會嘗試和做一些令你後悔的事情。這是正常的，也是你成長過程的一部分。它讓你重新評估、擴張、重新定向，以更匹配你的真理、能量以及你希望在世界呈現的方式。

If you have behaved in a way that you regret, please understand that the regret is an indicator of your desire for growth, change, and to shift into a better alignment. It is a sign that you are evolving. Having the introspection and awareness to recognize this is a wonderful thing. So please know your desire to do better or differently is truly something to celebrate.
如果你的行為令你後悔了，請明白，這個後悔是一個你渴望成長、改變、轉變到更好的指標。這是一個你在進化的跡象。能夠自省和意識到它是很棒的。所以請知曉，你希望做得更好或有所改變確實是值得慶祝的的事情。

If you, from a place of self awareness and self responsibility, sincerely apologize and another cannot accept that apology, you must allow them that choice. It may be that they need time to heal. It may be that they need to see that you are sincere and committed to change before they can feel safe with you again. It may be that they are not ready to let go of seeing themselves as a victim, or wanting to punish you. It may be that your soul contract with them has come to an end.
如果你，從一個自我意識和自我負責之地，真誠地道歉，而那個人不接受道歉，你必須允許他的選擇。這可能是他需要時間去療癒。也可能是他需要看到你是真誠的、想要改變，在他可以對你再次感覺安全之前。也可能是他還沒準備好放下"視自己為受害者"，或想要懲罰你。也可能是你與他的靈魂契約已經結束。

The bottom line is, in any situation, you can only show up with your best intentions and highest awareness, and whether a person can see or accept you in that way is completely up to them.You can only control yourself and your own actions. What others do is completely up to them –a combination of their own individual path and desired experiences for their own growth and evolution, and their free will of how they wish express themselves.
最重要的是，在任何情況中，你只能伴隨著最好的意圖和最高的意識呈現，一個人是否能夠看到或接納這樣的你完全取決於他們。你只能掌控自己和自己的行為。別人做什麼完全取決於他們—他們自己個人的道路和為了他們的成長與進化所渴望的體驗以及希望如何表達自己的自由意志這三者的組合。

So if you have erred and have regret, we suggest you apologize sincerely and demonstrate a new way of being consistently. Do not push people to forgive, as it may take time. Commit to your own growth and your highest self expression. Take the gifts of the experience, know your truth, shine your light, and from there people will begin to see and recognize you in your latest level of attainment.
所以，如果你做錯了什麼並且後悔了，我們建議你真誠地道歉，並展示一個始終如一地新的存在方式。不要逼迫別人去寬恕你，因為這需要時間。致力於你自己的成長和最高的自我表達。拾起體驗的禮物，知曉你的真理，閃耀你的光，從這裡人們會開始看到和認識到你最新的成就水平。

Forgive yourself and see the purpose of all that has happened. And most of all, know there is never, ever a time that you can ever fall out of our love or favour, for we love you completely and unconditionally through every single experience you have. ~Archangel Gabriel
寬恕自己，看到發生的一切目的。最重要的是，知曉從未有過一個時刻你失去了我們的愛或恩惠，因為我們在你的每一個體驗中徹底無條件地愛著你。~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2019/06/05/daily-message-wednesday-june-5-2019
翻譯：Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/721426467

Ask Gabriel（請問加百利）：
https://www.facebook.com/notes/trinity-esoterics/ask-gabriel/1989099964442945/?hc_location=ufi

友善提醒：閱讀文章時請善用自己的直覺與內在智慧，感知哪些是對自己有正面幫助的訊息，提取它們，並放下沒有共鳴的部分，無須執著或恐懼；保持心態的正面與開放，樂觀迎接新的可能，一個活在永久和平、自由、繁榮與實現真善美之新世界的可能。感謝所有光愛存有們的付出，感謝一切美好的發生~