LoveNPeace

As you continue to evolve, a theme that is coming up is moving beyond co-dependency into healthy connection.You may know that your interactions with those closest to you hold patterns that are no longer desired but don't quite know how to shift them. This can feel daunting because many of these patterns have been well entrenched since childhood. Along with this, unconditional love can sometimes be misunderstood to mean allowing any kind of behaviour to continue in order to be loving.
隨著你持續進化，一個主題會出現，那就是超越相互依賴進入健康的連接。你可能知道你與親密之人的互動有著你不再想要的模式但你不知道如何轉變它們。這會令人怯步，因為這些模式從孩童時期就根深蒂固。並且，無條件之愛有時候會被誤解為為了愛就必須允許任何行為。

Dear Ones, we have some simple rules of thumb to help you navigate the waters of creating healthier connections with appropriate boundaries. The first is, never become more invested in another person's wellness than they are in their own. The second is, never become more invested in another person's wellness than you are in your own.
親愛的一們，我們有一些簡單的經驗法則可以幫助你在適當的邊界創造更健康的連接。首先，永遠不要比當事人對他自己的福祉付出的更多。其次，永遠不要對他人的福祉付出的比對你自己的福祉付出的還要多。

You are seeking connection points that honour and empower everyone involved. There is not one solid unmovable line in the sand. There may be times where you need to step forward if someone is losing their balance to help them right themselves. The idea is that you always offer your support with an eye towards what will empower them to be able to stand on their own again.
你在尋找能夠尊重並授權每個涉及之人的連接點。在沙灘中沒有一條固定不變的線。有時候你可能需要向前一步，如果有人失去他們的平衡，去幫助他們恢復。我們的想法是，你始終伴隨著"注視於會授權他們去靠自己再次站起來的東西"來提供你的支持。

Co-dependency is connected to the old conditional love model.You fear if you disappoint another they will not love you anymore. When you change the unhealthy dance you have with another they may initially resist the change and be upset. But a beautiful thing happens if you stick to your new healthier model. They will still love you despite their initial displeasure, which allows both you and them to move into the experience of unconditional love.
相互依賴與舊的有條件之愛的模式相連。你擔心如果你讓別人失望，他們就不再愛你了。當你改變與他人不健康的模式時，他們可能一開始會抵制這種改變並生氣。但如果你堅持新的更加健康的模式，一件美好的事情會發生。儘管他們一開始很不滿，但他們仍會愛你，這會讓你和他們都能進入無條件之愛的體驗。

Your love and connection is meant to be empowering, encouraging, and supportive. It does not mean abandoning yourself or assuming responsibility for someone else's growth. There may be times you need to lovingly step back in order for someone to discover their own divine capability. Your wisdom will always know how to proceed if you look at it through the lens of what is empowering for everyone involved. ~Archangel Gabriel
你的愛和連接本應該是授權、鼓勵和支持。這並不意味著放棄自己或承擔他人的成長責任。有時候你會需要親切地後退一步以便讓別人發現自己的神聖能力。如果你通過能夠為所有參與者賦權的鏡頭來看待它，你的智慧將永遠知道如何進行下去。~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/2019/09/04/daily-message-wednesday-september-4-2019
翻譯：Nick Chan
https://www.douban.com/note/733213144

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友善提醒：閱讀文章時請善用自己的直覺與內在智慧，感知哪些是對自己有正面幫助的訊息，提取它們，並放下沒有共鳴的部分，無須執著或恐懼；保持心態的正面與開放，樂觀迎接新的可能，一個活在永久和平、自由、繁榮與實現真善美之新世界的可能。感謝所有光愛存有們的付出，感謝一切美好的發生~