LoveNPeace

Taking the time to be clear with yourself—to know your wants， your needs， your emotions， and what is aligned for you at any given time， is not only a great gift to yourself， it is a gift to others as well.By living and speaking your truth， you become much more trustworthy， because people can take you at your word without worrying about some kind of underlying energy.What you say and what you mean are totally aligned.
花時間弄清楚自己—了解你的渴望、需求、情緒以及什麼與你對齊，這不僅是給予自己的一份大禮，也是給予他人的一份禮物。通過活出和述說你的真理，你變得更加可靠，因為人們可以相信你說出的話，而不用擔心某種潛在的能量。你的話語和你想表達的意思是完全一致的。

This takes you completely out of people pleasing which will always lead to resentment and an erosion of your relationships.Further， it is much better use of your own energy because it will keep you in flow and out of resistance.It allows you to show up in a way that is empowered and congruent， which people will find much easier to understand and respond to.
這將使你完全擺脫取悅他人的模式，它總是導向怨恨和人際關係的敗壞。此外，更好地利用自己的能量，因為這會讓你處於流動，離開抵抗。這會讓你在授權和一致的方式中展現自己，人們會更加容易理解和響應。

Saying no to others and honouring yourself is a skill like any other.You can learn how to give no's that are firm yet mindful and kind， and others will come to respect that truth and clarity.You will be able to settle into the knowing of unconditional love and the joy that comes from being your truest expression of self.And you will attract more and more situations and connections that match that truth.
對別人說不(意指：該拒絕的時候要勇於拒絕，不要把他人置於自己之上，或是因為想符合他人的期待亦或是想要扮演一個好人而委曲求全)，尊重自己就是一項技能。你可以學習如何堅定、正向而又友善的拒絕，其他人會尊重這個真理和明晰。你將能夠安於來自你最真實的自我表達的無條件之愛和喜悅。你將會吸引越來越多與這種真理匹配的情況和連接。

And through it all， you will become a powerful teacher by example， showing others how to embrace a life that truly reflects their truth， as well.It is a shift that honours everyone involved and allows your relationships to bloom and grow in far more authentic ways.~Archangel Gabriel
通過這一切，你會成為以身作則的強大教師，向他人展示如何擁抱真實反映自己真理的生活。這是一個榮耀每個涉及之人並讓你的人際關係在更加真實的方式中綻放和成長的轉變。~大天使加百利

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
鏈接：https://www.jianshu.com/p/f56b206f1f0b
翻譯：Nick Chan
Ask Gabriel(請問加百利)：
https://www.facebook.com/notes/trinity-esoterics/ask-gabriel/1989099964442945/?hc_location=ufi

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