LoveNPeace

Your self love process is often a continuation of the parenting model you received as a child.Do you only approve of yourself if you are being"good" and reject or berate yourself if you are not?Apattern of approval/rejection of self will keep you spinning your wheels rather than moving forward in your journey in a state of authenticity and acceptance.
你的自愛通常是你從孩提時期接受之的教育的一個延續。你是否在自己"很乖"時才認可自己，如果你不是則排斥或責備自己。這個自我認可/拒絕的模式會讓你團團轉，而不是在真實和接納的狀態中向你的旅程前進。（編註："很乖"意指認可遵從長輩或社會教育的那個你，而不是真實的你。認識真實的自己需要從了解與接納開始，進而逐漸明晰自己真正之所是）

Over the next while， we encourage you to pay attention to your self talk and see if it is mimicking the voice of the primary caregivers you had as a child.Now that you are grown， and generally much wiser and more conscious of emotional needs， can you change that narrative? What would a new voice sound like? What would it say? How would it make you feel? How would it support your journey into your next highest expression of self?
在接下來的一段時間裡，我們鼓勵你留意你的自我對話，看看它是否在模仿你小時候的主要照顧者的聲音。現在你已經長大，更加明智，更能意識到情感上的需求，你能改變那個故事嗎？一個新的聲音會是什麼樣的？它會說些什麼？它會讓你感覺如何？它會如何支持你進入你最高的自我表達？

It is always a cause for celebration when you recognize old patterns that are running in the background and realize you can change them.You might even think of it as deleting old code and upgrading your operating system! It is with your conscious awareness， and your own tender， loving care， you can encourage yourself forward into the adult version of yourself that was always your true potential.
當你意識到舊的模式在後台運行並且你可以改變它們時，這是值得慶祝的。你甚至可以將其視為刪除舊的版本，升級你的操作系統！伴隨著你意識到自己的覺知、溫柔、有愛的關懷，你可以鼓勵自己從孩童版邁入成人版，那才是你現在真正的潛能。

You have no idea how incredible it is that we can even give this message and have it go straight to your heart， and next， into your own loving actions towards yourself， because from there empowered forward movement becomes not just a possibility， but the next natural step in your unfoldment.
你可能不知道，我們給予你這則信息，讓它直接進入你的心，然後進入你對自己有愛的行動中，這有多麼不可思議，因為從那裡，授權的前進運動不只是可能的，而且還可能成為你展開的下一個自然步驟。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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翻譯：Nick-Chan
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友善提醒：閱讀文章時請善用自己的直覺與內在智慧，感知哪些是對自己有正面幫助的訊息，提取它們，並放下沒有共鳴的部分，無須執著或恐懼；保持心態的正面與開放，樂觀迎接新的可能，一個活在永久和平、自由、繁榮與實現真善美之新世界的可能。感謝所有光愛存有們的付出，感謝一切美好的發生~