LoveNPeace

We were recently asked，"Why is it my mother can trigger me so quickly and make me feel like I'm 14 again?" We would like to address this today.
我們最近被問道："為什麼我的母親可以如此快速地觸發我，讓我感覺自己像14歲一樣？(編註：意指好像又回到青少年時期一樣敏感易怒)"我們今天來談談這個問題。

Your parents， and you， came in with the exact energetics and traits required for you to find your preferred path of experience.Sometimes you parents guide you by showing you who to be.Sometimes they guide you by showing you who not to be.All of this is information for you to decide what your preferences are and who you really are.
你的父母，還有你，帶著讓你找到你偏愛的體驗道路所需的確切能量和特性來到地球。有時，你的父母通過向你展示該成為什麼樣的人來指引你。有時他們通過向你展示不該成為什麼樣的人來指引你。這一切都是信息，它可以讓你決定自己的偏好以及了解真正的你。

There is great love and a deeply respectful soul contract between you， which may have an overlay that feels somewhat triggering.This overlay is designed to help you want to launch your own path， and to continually drive you to find your own truth and your own way.It is what makes you want to ultimately launch into your own life expression.
你們之間有著巨大的愛和深受尊重的靈魂契約，它可能會有一個感覺起來被觸發的覆蓋層。這個覆蓋層旨在幫助你踏上自己的道路，並不斷驅使你去找到自己的真理和道路。它將使你最終想要進入自己的生命表達。

You feel that challenging overlay strongest when you are teenagers.That is designed to prepare you to detach from the parents and want to venture out into your own individual life expression， usually around the age of 18.That is why when you get back around your parents you can feel like you regress to being a teen—you are responding to the peak of those energetics.When that particular energetic overlay is not present， you see adult children having never left home and failing to launch.
你在青少年時期會強烈地感受到那個覆蓋的挑戰性。這是為了讓你準備好脫離父母，通常在18歲左右，你會想要冒險進入個人的生命表達。這就是為什麼當你回到父母身邊的時候，你會感覺像回到了青少年時期—你在對那些能量的峰值起反應。如果那個特定的能量覆蓋不存在的話，你會看到成年的孩子從未離開家，也沒有踏上自己的道路。

It is not uncommon to have one parent who is much easier to be around and another who is more triggering.This is by design to meet your various needs and was agreed to on a soul level.
一個比較好相處而另一個比較容易觸發你，這樣的父母是很常見的。這是為了滿足你的各種需求而設計的，並且在靈魂層面上已經達成了共識。

Another thing that may be causing you discomfort is that your parents came from a different energetic time that you have already evolved beyond.What you may be rejecting is not your parents at all but rather the older energetics and belief systems that are not a match to you.
另一個可能會導致你不舒服的事情就是，你的父母來自一個你的進化程度已經超越了的不同能量時代。你拒絕的也許不是你的父母，而是不匹配你的舊能量和信念。

So what is the key to being more comfortable with your parents? It is not necessarily about healing this because it is an energetic template that is meant to last in varying intensity throughout your days.It is about coming to acceptance that the overlay exists for a purpose， and that purpose is for you to find your own truth and your own way.
那麼與自己的父母相處更加舒適的關鍵是什麼？這不一定是為了療癒，因為這是一個能量模版，旨在於在你的日子裡以不同的強度持續下去。接納覆蓋的存在是有其目的的，目的是為了讓你找到自己的真理和道路。

Just as you get uncomfortable in your own life when energies no longer match you and this occurs to get you to embrace change when it comes， so it is with these relationships.If you can honour the fact that there is underlying love， respect， and purpose beneath it all you can move from resistance to acceptance， which will make your time with those loved ones much easier.
就像在能量與你不匹配的時候你會變得不舒服一樣，它的發生是為了讓你去擁抱改變，這些人際關係也是如此。如果你可以榮耀這一切之下那潛在的愛、尊重、目標，那麼你就可以從抗拒進入接納，這會讓你與那些親人相處的時光變得更加輕鬆。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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翻譯：Nick-Chan
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