LoveNPeace

If someone is kind to you， do you think it is because of you? Did you cause them to do it? No， you simply see it as them showing you who they are and how they wished to express themselves in that moment.You think， oh， how lovely and appreciate them and their kindness.So we wish to ask you， why then， if someone is unkind to you， do you make it about you?
如果有人對你很友善，你認為這是因為你嗎？是你導致他們這麼做的嗎？不，他們只是在展示他們之所是以及他們想要在那個時刻如何表達自己。你心想，哦，他們好有愛，你很感謝他們的好意。所以我們想要請問你，為什麼，當有人對你不友善時，你認為是在針對你呢？

On the other side of things， if you are having a bad day and are out of balance and act out in a way that is unkind to another， do you think it is because there is something about them that made it happen? Do you think you were serving their growth and evolution through your unkindness? Do you think your reactivity was healing for them? Of course not! You look at yourself， assume responsibility， apologize， and look at ways you can shift within yourself to avoid it happening in the future.
另一方面，如果你今天過得很糟糕，失去了平衡，以一種對他人不友善的方式行事，你認為這是他們導致這樣的嗎？你是否認為你是在通過不友善的方式來幫助他們成長和進化？你認為你的反應對他們有好處嗎？當然不！你審視自己，承擔起責任，道歉，看看自己可以如何改變來以避免再次發生這種情況。

There is absolutely such a thing as mirroring， but that will usually show up as a core theme that loops around into your awareness time and again in order to get your attention and point you in the direction of your healing.In times of accelerated energies people who are out of balance or in deep discomfort will act out because they do not know what else to do.It has nothing at all to do with who you are or your level of soul attainment.
確實有著鏡像之類的東西，但它通常會作為一個不斷進入你意識的核心主題來呈現，這是為了要引起你的注意並為你指明療癒的方向。在能量加速的時期，人們會表現出失衡或者深度不適，因為他們不知道還能做什麼。這跟你之所是或你的靈魂成就水平沒有關係。

The enlightenment journey is ultimately one of self responsibility， honouring your own evolution and choosing how you wish to show up for others.It is not about taking responsibility for the actions of others.So if someone is unkind to you， we urge you to simply see it as an expression of where that person was operating from that day.There is no need to add to your discomfort by making yourself responsible for it， as well.The vast majority of the time， the person's behaviour towards you was based on where they are energetically， and is not about you at all.
啟蒙之旅的根本就是自我負責，尊重自己的進化並選擇如何呈現自己。這不是關於為別人的行為負責。所以如果有人對你不友善，我們敦促你把它看成是那個人當時的一種表達。沒有必要讓自己去為此負責來增添你的不適。絕大多數時候，別人對你的行為是基於他們當時的狀態，根本與你無關。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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