LoveNPeace

As empaths and sensitives，many of you naturally have profound compassion for others，including those who have hurt you.This is a wonderful trait，but your compassion for those who have hurt you should not exceed your compassion for yourself.
作為具有同理心和敏感的人，你們中的許多人天生對他人懷有深刻的同情心，包含那些傷害了你的人。這是一個很好的特質，但你對那些傷害過你的人所抱持的同情不該超過對自己的同情。

You can understand that a person hurt you due to unhealed aspects they may have.This is wise because it allows you to forgive，but you must also know that until they prioritize healing they are likely to do it again.
你能夠理解一個人可能因為他們未治癒的面向而傷害了你。這是明智的，因為這可以讓你寬恕，但你也必須明白，除非他們優先考慮療癒，否則他們很可能會再次這樣做。

This is not to say you can't have love and compassion for them.Far from it! It simply means you may wish to rethink giving them VIP access until they are able to treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
這並不是說你不能對他們有愛和同情心。遠非如此！這只是意味著你可能需要重新考慮給予他們VIP的訪問權限，除非他們能夠以愛和尊重對待你。

Cause and effect is not punishment.It is a natural outcome and fosters accountability and ultimately facilitates change and evolution.Allowing someone to continue to show up as such a lesser version of themselves perpetuates painful cycles and doesn't support the growth and expansion of anyone involved.Healthy boundaries，when created from a wise and conscious space，will always find a connection point that supports the respect，safety，and empowerment of all，and that is very in line with what your empathic heart truly desires.
因和果不是懲罰。它是一種自然的結果，會促進責任心以及改變和進化。讓一個人持續以較低的版本展現自己，那麼痛苦的循環會延續，並且不支持任何涉及之人的成長和擴張。當從一個明智的有意識的空間創造出健康的界線時，總會找到一個連接點，能夠支持對一切的尊重、安全和賦權，這與你的同理心真正渴望的東西對齊。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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翻譯：Nick-Chan
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