LoveNPeace

Waiting for another to apologize before you can heal after a hurt is deciding to stay in a wounded state and giving your power away.You do not require closure in order to heal! You can give yourself closure any time you want by deciding you no longer wish to stay in the energy of the hurt and move back into your wholeness and wellness.
在一個傷害過後，若於療癒前等待他人先道歉那就是你決定讓自己處於一個受傷的狀態並交付了你的力量。你不需求終止以便療癒！你可以通過決定不再希望處於受傷的能量並回到你的完整和福祉中來給予自己終止，在任何時刻。

(註：即人們可以透過選擇離開受傷/被害的能量回到平衡健康狀態來給予自己治癒，而此前使你感覺受傷的人有沒有給你一個道歉來讓事件做一個終結並不是重點，如果你處在某個狀態是為了等待他人給你一個交代，那就如同把自己的力量交付給他人，讓他人來左右你的人生)
 

If a person has hurt you and has not apologized to you，it is showing you that they are not a safe person for you at this time.It is telling you that they are not able to love，honour，nurture and appreciate you for whatever reason.Does that sound like a person you should put your healing in the hands of? Repeatedly going after them looking for an apology，and explanation，trying to make them see，is only going to result in your becoming frustrated，angry and more hurt.Accept them for where they are and move on.They cannot give you what you are seeking.
如果一個人傷害了你並沒有對你道歉，這就說明那個人此刻並不是一個安全的人。這是在告訴你他無法愛、榮耀、滋養和欣賞你，不管出於什麼原因。聽起來是不是你應該把療癒放入他手中的一個人？不斷地追著他尋求道歉和解釋，試圖讓他看到，只會導致你變得挫折、憤怒和更加受傷。接納他所在的境地並前進。他無法給予你你所尋求的。
 

The way to dissolve the ties that bind you to one who has hurt you is to see that they are not bad.People who hurt others are not operating from a whole and balanced place.Acknowledge them for being where they are，and release them from your energy with your love and healing.Then give yourself all the tender care，love，understanding and nurturing you need to find your way back into your wellness.Your healing is dependant on one thing only，Dear Ones，and that is you.~Archangel Gabriel
溶解與傷害你之人捆綁的連接的方式就是看到他並不壞。傷害他人的人並沒有從完整、平衡的境地運作。認識到他處於他的境地，伴隨著愛與療癒將他從你的能量中釋放。然後給予自己所有溫柔的關懷、愛、理解和滋養，來找到你回歸福祉的道路。你的療癒只取決於一樣東西，親愛的一們，那就是你自己。

~大天使加百利

翻譯：Nick Chan
http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_bd4aebd60102vdbf.html
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2015/01/13/daily-message-tuesday-january-13-2015/

友善提醒：閱讀訊息時請保持身心靈的平靜與開放，並善用自己的直覺與內在智慧，感知有正面幫助的訊息，提取它們，並放下沒有共鳴的部分，無須執著、擔憂、恐懼；保持心態的正面與開放，樂觀迎接新的可能，一種接近真善美的可能。

感謝一切~歡迎轉載~NAMASTE~