Dear Ones,during times of intensity and change,people can get triggered and act out in sudden and surprising ways.This may feel shocking and confusing to you.
親愛的一們,在強烈改變的時期,人們可能會被觸發,做出突然或出乎意料的行為。這可能會讓你感到震驚和困惑。
When people are having an experience that threatens an unhealed aspect of self,they are not just reacting to the experience at hand,they are reacting to the entire history of that wound.That is why it can feel so much stronger and out of proportion to that singular experience.
當人們體驗到一個威脅自己未療癒面向的體驗,他們不只會對體驗起反應,還會引發對那創傷整個歷史的反應。這就是為什麼感覺如此強烈且與那個單一體驗相比不對稱的原因。
If someone has reacted in such a way towards you and it is completely uncharacteristic,we urge you to focus on the entirety of your relationship with them.From a place of compassion and by looking at the whole picture,you can embody the energy of grace and forgiveness,just as you would appreciate someone doing the same for you.Because you are not triggered,you have an opportunity to hold the space for them until they can regain their balance.If you get triggered by them being triggered,you may wish to explore what is coming up for healing for you,as well.
如果有人對你做出這樣的反應並且完全不合常理,我們敦促你專注於你與他的整體關係。從同情心之地出發,通過看到整體畫面,你可以體現出優雅和寬恕的能量,就像你會感激別人也對你這麼做一樣。因為你沒有被觸發,你有機會為他們保持空間直到他們重新恢復平衡。如果你因他們被觸發而你也被他們所觸發,你可能會希望探索有什麼浮現出現來讓你可以療癒它的。
But if someone is in a cycle of reactivity towards you and are defending their actions rather than taking responsibility for their healing,you may need to decide to remove yourself from that situation until such time as they can become a safe connection for you again.This is not being punishing or unforgiving,but rather taking yourself out of a recurring energetic cycle that is not serving the highest good of anyone involved.Stepping out of that pattern allows for reevaluation and creates an energetic shift.The other person can then decide if they wish to meet you in those new energies or not.
但如果有人處於對你起觸發反應的循環,並且在捍衛他們的行為而不是為他們自己的療癒承擔責任,你可能需要決定從那個情況中抽身,直到他們可以再次安全連接。這不是懲罰或不寬恕,而是使自己擺脫不服務於涉及之人的最高善利益的能量循環。離開那個模式可以重新評估並創造一個能量轉變。其他人就可以決定是否希望在新的能量中與你相遇。
Continually allowing yourself to be hurt by another keeps you in a victim/martyr role and the other in a cycle of abuse/shame which furthers reactivity.Stepping out of that pattern with loving and firm boundaries allows for reevaluation and creates an energetic shift that creates space for healing on both sides to occur.The other person can then decide if they wish to meet you in those new dynamics or not.If they choose not to,it is an indicator they are not an energetic match to you,or a safe person for you at this time.
不斷地讓自己被他人傷害會讓你處於受害者/殉道者角色,而另一方則是處於羞辱/虐待的循環,這會進一步加劇反應。伴隨著有愛的、堅定的界限走出那個模式,這會允許重新評估並創造一個能量轉變,為兩邊的療癒創造空間。對方可以決定是否要在新的動態中與你相遇。如果選擇不,這是一個指示,表明他們並不與你現在的能量狀態匹配,或在那個時間點他們對你來說不是一個安全的人。
These are complex times,and no one is going to navigate the energies you are in with beautiful grace and ease all the time.With your wisdom you will be able to tell what is a rare occurrence and what is an ongoing situation that is no longer acceptable.
這是一個複雜的時代,沒有人總是可以用優雅和輕盈的狀態航行所處的能量。善用你的內在智慧,你將能夠分辨出什麼是罕見的情況,而什麼是不再可以被接受它持續發生的情況。
Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文:https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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