LoveNPeace

Your boundaries can be malleable without making you weak， inconsistent， or vulnerable if you are making them in a per case basis with the criteria that your connection point is a place that is safe and empowering for everyone involved.
如果你是按照具體情況，並以對所有涉及之人來說都是安全和授權的連接點標準來制定界限的話，那麼你的界限是可塑的，它不會讓你變得軟弱、不一致或脆弱。

There may be some people in your life who are not safe for you to be in close proximity with.Those people will need to be kept at a distance.In fact， in those cases， you may choose to have a boundary of no contact at all.This is perfectly appropriate if their behaviour is abusive or causes you distress.It is never empowering to support another in showing up in a lesser version of themselves， either， so no contact can be the highest choice for everyone involved.
也許你生活中有一些不夠安全的人。與那些人需要保持距離。事實上，在這種情況下，你可以選擇設置一個根本不要去接觸的界線。這是完全恰當的，如果他們有虐待性的行為或讓你感到痛苦。"支持他人展現較低版本的自我"這從未是授權的，所以"不接觸"可以是對每個涉及之人最高的選擇。

There are other souls who are so safe and supportive for you they deserve VIP access.These are the people who you can completely and open-heartedly be yourself with， who you enjoy a beautiful flow of love and support with.The relationship is mutually trustworthy， beneficial， and uplifting.These people are your soul companions， who bring you joy， and add to your life just as you add to theirs.
還有著其他靈魂是安全的，支持你的，他們值得VIP訪問權。與這些人相處你可以完全敞開心扉，你會與他們一起享受美好的愛與支持的流動。這種關係是相互信任的、有益的、提升的。這些人是你的靈魂伴侶，他們會帶給你喜悅，會給你的生活添加風采。

Based on the two examples we have given， can you see how attempting to have a preset one size fits all middle ground boundary system would not serve you in either instance? In the first case it would leave you vulnerable， in the second it would make you miss out on the joy of deep and respectful connection.
根據上面兩個例子，你能看到試圖設置一個"一刀切"的界線在兩種情況中都不服務你嗎？在第一種情況下，它會讓你變得脆弱，在第二種情況下，它會讓你錯過深度互相尊重之連接的喜悅。

You are ready.You are ready to use your wisdom to find the connection points with others that allow you to meet people where they are and sets the stage for the most satisfying interactions that serve everyone involved.And that， Dear Ones， is exactly what boundaries are designed to do.
你已經準備好了。你已經準備好用你的智慧找到與他人的連接點，讓你在他們的所在之地相遇，並為最令人滿意的互動奠定基礎，這會服務每個涉及之人。親愛的，這就是界線被設計來做的。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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