LoveNPeace

As we continue our series on boundaries this week， we would like to offer you an analogy that should make it very easy to understand the varying connection points of boundaries.
隨著我們繼續本周的界線系列，我們想要提供你一個類比來讓你更好地理解各種界線的不同連接點。

Imagine， if you will， attending a dance.If your beloved is there and a slow song comes on， you will lovingly take to the middle of the dance floor to sway together in a close and intimate embrace.You may also share the dance floor with others in faster， less intimate dances that still allow you to share an enjoyable experience with another while maintaining more distance between you.And there may be others who you decide you don't wish to dance with at all.
想像一下，你參加一個舞會。如果你心愛的人在那裡，一首慢歌響起，你會很樂意和他/她一起來到舞池中央在親密的擁抱中一起搖擺。你也可以在輕快的、不那麼親密的舞蹈中與他人分享舞池，這仍然可以讓你與他人擁有一個令人愉悅的體驗，同時保持你們之間的距離。還有一些人你也許並不希望與之共舞。

You automatically respond with whatever is an appropriate level of closeness with your dance partners.But regardless of how close or separate you choose to be with others during the dance， you still care about the well-being of every person who is attending the dance， whether you danced with them or not.You weighed all your options and wisely made your choices based on your comfort and desires while honouring the right of every single soul to be in the dance hall.
你做出與你舞伴適當親密程度的回應。但不管在跳舞期間你選擇與他人保持多親密或多遠，你仍然關心每個參加舞會之人的福祉，無論你與他們共舞與否。你權衡所有的選項，基於你的舒適和願望明智地做出選擇，同時尊重每個處於舞池中之靈魂的權利。

Do you see? Having boundaries while being part of the whole is a skill you already have.At a dance you make your choices based on how you feel and how much closeness is appropriate in a per case basis， and you can use that template in your day to day life， as well.You get to choose whose name you put on your dance card and what kind of dance you would like to do with them.It does not need to be any more complicated than that.
你明白了嗎？擁有界線同時成為整體的一部分是你已經擁有的能力。在一場舞會中，你基於自己的感受以及與每個人適當的距離來做出你的選擇，你也可以在日常生活中使用這個模版。你可以自由選擇邀誰共舞，以及你想和他們一起跳什麼樣的舞。它不需要比這更複雜。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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