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We realize that adjusting boundaries can seem daunting， especially if they've been in an unhealthy pattern for a long time.But healthy boundaries are essential for helping you， and everyone around you， meet their highest potentials.That is exactly why they are coming up for reexamination for so many of you.
我們意識到調整界線似乎令人生畏，尤其是當人們長期處於不健康的模式時。但健康的界線可以幫助你和你周圍的人發揮自己最高的潛能。這正是它們在浮現被重新審視的原因。

We wish for you to know that shifting your boundaries isn't mean when you are doing it from a conscious place， although people may accuse you of being mean or unfair as you do so.That is simply because they may be fearing change， or because they are invested in things staying the same.Shifting boundaries isn't about punishment， it is about seeking an overall balance that is fair.
我們希望你明白，當你有意識地轉變你的界線時，別人可能會指責你刻薄或不公平。這僅僅是因為他們可能害怕改變或想要事物保持不變。轉變界線不是關於懲罰，而是尋求整體的平衡。

Most people who resist healthy boundaries are trying to avoid stepping into their own authentic power in some way.This is detrimental as that is exactly what you are on the planet to do! You may have noticed that when you have unhealthy boundaries with another there is a lot of blaming each other involved.When you are consumed with what another is doing， you are not putting your focus on your own growth and evolution.
大多數抗拒健康界線的人都是在試圖避免進入自己真實的力量。這是有害的，因為這正是你來到地球要做的！你可能已經注意到了，當你與另一個人有不健康的界限時，就會有很多對彼此的指責。當你被另一個人的所作所為折磨時，你沒有把你的注意力放在自己的成長和進化上。

In some cases， you may need to make a big shift in your relationship to stop old patterning.If you have been in a dance of unhealthy boundaries with another for a long time， you may fear this will end your relationship but the reality is your relationship， if it is wildly out of balance， is doomed to fail.Moving into healthier boundaries is exactly what will give your relationship a chance.
在某些情況下，你可能需要做出巨大的人際關係的改變來停止舊模式。如果你與一個人長期處於不健康界線的情況中，你可能會擔心這會結束你們的關係，但事實上是如果你的人際關係嚴重失衡，它注定會失敗。進入更加健康的界線正是給你們的關係一個機會。

In other cases， you may slowly start shifting things in a way that won't feel as drastic to others.This can start by you simply feeling into your truth before you answer or act.Ask yourself， is this fair and empowering for everyone involved? You can start saying no to others(or yes to yourself!)， or start delegating activities to others that they can easily do for themselves， slowly but surely， to start to enact more gradual change.This requires commitment on your part to stay consciously aware and not fall back into old patterns.
在其他情況下，你可能會慢慢開始以一種不會讓他人感覺那麼激烈的方式改變事情。這可以從你回答或採取行動之前先感受自己的真理開始。問問自己，這對每個涉及之人來說是否公平和授權？你可以開始對他人說不（或對自己說是），或者開始授權他們能夠輕易做到的活動，緩慢但確實的去開始發生更多漸進的改變。這需要你有意識地保持承諾而不是回到舊模式。

Again we remind you that boundaries are there to support fair， empowering connection for everyone involved.That is always a good thing， and your inner wise one always knows where that point is.You may need to be very firm in extreme cases， or you may gently shift things slowly， but no matter how you get there， rest assured your boundaries exist for the highest good of all， because they allow you to use your energy much more consciously and to finally move out of old cycles and patterns into true forward movement.
我們再次提醒你，界線的存在是為了支持每個涉及之人公平、授權的連接。這總是一件好事，你的內在智慧總是知道那個點在哪。在極端情況下你可能需要非常堅定，或者你可以慢慢地溫柔地轉變事物，但無論你如何到達，請放心，你的界線是為了一切最高善的利益而存在，因為它們讓你更加有意識地使用你的能量，最終擺脫舊的循環和模式，進入真正的前進運動。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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翻譯：Nick-Chan
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