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We were recently asked if you would see less narcissists in the new energies.We would like to address that today.
我們最近被問到是否會在新的能量中看到越來越少的自戀者。我們今天來談談這個問題。

The experience of a relationship with what you would call a narcissist occurs to get your attention to move into a better balance with yourself.While it is true that it frequently happens with empaths and sensitives， it is not because they are targeted per se， but rather because they are over givers who need to create an extreme experience for themselves in order to get their attention and to want to address that within themselves.
你與你所謂的自戀者的交互體驗是為了讓你進入與自己更好的平衡。雖然確實它經常發生在具有同理心和敏感的人身上，這不是因為他們被針對了，而是因為他們是過度的付出者，需要為他們創造一個極端的體驗來讓他們注意到這一點並在自己內部解決這個問題。

Many empaths are still carrying a martyred service paradigm—they give and give and give and accept very little for themselves.They see the divine spark in others， and choose to focus on that rather than how that person is showing up in this life expression.
許多具有同理心的人仍然攜帶著一個殉道者服務模式—他們付出，付出，付出，接收的卻很少。他們看到他人之內的神聖火花，選擇專注於它，而不是那個人在這個生命表達中如何呈現。

Have you noticed how a relationship with a narcissist involves you giving and giving with little in return? And how the more you give the less it seems to satisfy the other? The relationship with the narcissist will go as far as necessary in order for you to say enough and shift into a healthier， more balanced and supportive experience for yourself.
你是否注意到與自戀者的交流如何涉及你付出，付出，卻很少回報？為什麼你付出越多，好像對方越不滿足？與自戀者的關係會持續，直到你覺得夠了，並轉變到一個更加健康、平衡、支持性的體驗。

Being a giving and loving person by nature and having a strong service contract are wonderful traits to have! What is seeking to be brought into balance is including yourself in your own care and service.The narcissist experience serves you by moving as far out of balance as necessary to finally force you to do just that， and that is why it is so prevalent among empaths.
作為一個天生懂得付出的有愛之人，這些人有著一份強大的服務合同，這些都是很棒的特質！尋求被帶入平衡的是將你包含到自己的關懷和服務中。與自戀者的交流體驗通過盡可能遠離平衡以迫使你去關懷和服務自己，這就是為什麼在有同理心之人當中如此常見。

The narcissist/empath relationship is disempowering for both involved.It disempowers you because you deny yourself and try to take on the role of making another happy.It disempowers the other because they expect you to fill them up and make them happy.It is doomed to fail because externals cannot make you whole and happiness， satisfaction， and personal growth all must come from within.
與自戀者/有同理心之人的交流會令涉及的雙方都失去力量。它令你失去力量，因為你否認自己並試圖扮演讓別人開心的角色。它令人失去力量是因為他們期望你去填補他們，讓他們開心。這注定會失敗，因為外在無法使你完整和幸福，滿足和個人成長都必須來自內在。

So to answer the question， will we see less narcissists in the new energies? Over givers will always attract over takers and vice versa.If you are shifting into the inclusion of yourself in your own focus and care there would be no purpose for the experience of the narcissist.And let us assure you， once you do that you would never accept the out of balance nature of a narcissist relationship， so it truly becomes a non-issue.
所以來回答問題，我們會在新能量中看到更少的自戀者嗎？過度付出者總是會吸引過度接收者，反之亦然。如果你將自己納入自己的關注和關懷中，那麼自戀者的經歷就沒有必要了。讓我們向你保證，一旦你這麼做，你將永遠不會接納自戀者關係中的失衡本質，所以它不再成為一個問題。

It has all happened to point you back to yourself so you can readjust into a healthier flow of both giving and receiving.Once you do that you will finally be able to align with relationships that uplift and support everyone involved.
這一切發生都是為了將你回到自己，這樣你就可以重新調整到一個更加健康的付出和接收的流動。一旦你這麼做，你最終將能夠與提升和支持每個涉及之人的關係對齊。

Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/daily-message
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