LoveNPeace

My dear friends， we love you so very much，

As we close out this week's series of messages on boundaries， we would like to discuss how to know someone has changed enough to let them back into closer proximity to you.

We realize that adjusting boundaries can seem daunting， especially if they've been in an unhealthy pattern for a long time.But healthy boundaries are essential for helping you， and everyone around you， meet their highest potentials.That is exactly why they are coming up for reexamination for so many of you.

As we continue our series on boundaries this week， we would like to offer you an analogy that should make it very easy to understand the varying connection points of boundaries.

Your boundaries can be malleable without making you weak， inconsistent， or vulnerable if you are making them in a per case basis with the criteria that your connection point is a place that is safe and empowering for everyone involved.

As you evolve， your boundaries evolve， too.When you are at the beginning of your evolutionary journey， you may be living such a base existence that you are only interested in what you can get from others.You seek to fill yourself up from externals because you think that is the only way you can assure your own survival.Eventually you realize you cannot thrive by only breathing in.

親愛的朋友們，我們非常愛你們。

Gratitude is the acknowledgment that the universe is working for you.It is through that acceptance you can start to experience even deeper faith and trust， and feel just how loved and guided you truly are.Do you see? Gratitude is the resounding yes that leads to many more wondrous things to say yes to， and that is exactly how you enhance and direct your flow.

In a continuation of our discussion yesterday about the distrust of ease， we would like to point out that easy doesn't mean you've taken shortcuts or done shoddy work.Rushing through something with a lack of integrity or care is not truly easy because it will come with more work or repercussions down the road.

Do you distrust ease? We would like to discuss this very common trait.

We speak often of how lulls and action phases create balance.A lull creates space for release， healing， and integration.An action phase creates outward progress.But did you know that they provide balance between you and the planet， as well?

You can't  move into the fullest expression of you in the new energies if you are still hauling old limitations around with you.So how do you know you have limitations? By paying conscious attention to the reasons you tell yourself why you can't  have the life you deserve.

我親愛的朋友們，我們非常的愛你們！

So many of you feel like you aren't important enough to make a difference.We are here to tell you otherwise!

Some of you still find loving yourselves very difficult or unnatural.You might think self love means making yourself more important than others， or perhaps will make you fall into ego.Maybe you are more comfortable giving than receiving， so self love feels unnatural to you.

Most human beings have adopted self imposed limitations that restrict their experiences and progress.Most of these have been accepted as truth long before you have evolved into the person you are today.

Dear Ones， there are certain myths that we would love to see you release from your personal belief systems.Some of these would be the idea that you could ever do anything to lose our love and support， that you are born a sinner， that you are unworthy， that you need to continually sacrifice yourself in order to be worthy or pious， just to name a few.

My dear friends，we love you so very much，

Many of you carry wounds of abandonment or being shunned from other life expressions.This is an exceedingly common theme for enlightening human beings， and one that is up for healing as you continue to move forward into unity consciousness.